Anonymous asked: you said it was okay for anons to confess stuff, so heres a confession. i once cheated on my boyfriend, with one of my best friends. we have now broken up and he doesn't know, but to be fair he treated me like shit, he didnt hit me or rape me, but he mentally abused me and i still believed he loved me. should i still feel this guilty? even though we broke up last year in august and i cheated on him in july. sorry, its a secret thats been eating away at me
Oo… I really see cheating as really bad.. Only because i’ve been cheated on before, I’m not a big fan of it :/. Even though someone treats you like shit its no excuse to cheat on them, but that’s my opinion. I mean it depends how you look of it and how you think of it.. Maybe he did love you, I don’t know your circumstances. If he knows you have and you told him and you’ve broken up then no you shouldn’t feel guilty at all because he knows that you did. If he doesn’t it may sit on your conscience.. I don’t know much about this stuff. I’m not one to judge and I’m not judging you at all and I don’t want to make you feel like I am. How did he mentally abuse you? You don’t have to tell me its completely fine. If its a secret eating away at you maybe you should get it off your chest, it may make you feel better.. I mean its been a long time since last year now and everything, all he can do is forgive you and that’s what I did, keeping it from someone is the worst thing you can do because I felt like a right dick myself for not being told, its not very nice. It’s your choice whether to feel guilty or not, I can’t tell you if you should or shouldn’t, sorry if this didn’t help..